I'm sure if we took a psychiatric deep dive this would be where I first connected being gay with being funny.
I thought John Ritter was hilarious as the affable Jack Tripper, who's claim to gayness was merely a ruse to fool his landlord. The only reason I even knew the word "gay" as a kid was from watching reruns of the sitcom Three's Company - in retrospect this wasn't the best introduction. (People ask me if a person can possibly be both gay and Mormon, and my answer is yes - just not at the same time). As a gay man who grew up in the very conservative Mormon church, humour has been an essential part of my healing and growth as a queer individual. The form I choose most is comedy, producing stand-up shows under the banner Gay AF Comedy, connecting queer comedians with queer audiences who are eager to feel represented. Resilience and better judgement are the things that are keeping me safe these days.įrom the simple act of wearing a multicoloured bracelet to appearing onstage or on television as an openly gay human, queer visibility takes on so many forms they can't be numbered. The word "f-t" has been hurled at me more times in these past two pandemic years than in the preceding twenty that I've lived in Toronto - never have I felt like such an uninvited guest in my own city.
Queeries What 'turned you' queer? With tongue planted firmly in cheek, this podcast digs into origin stories We sighed and kept walking, our resilience and better judgement kicking in like a knee jerk reaction. Then, far enough away but within earshot we hear that familiar F-word. Walking to the subway with my husband after DeAnne's show I noticed a young man clock the rainbow bracelet my guy was wearing. We are desperate to feel good about ourselves, so when we find an outlet we really let loose. A queer audience at a queer comedy show almost always feels like this. A "hot audience" is there for the laughs, so much so it feels like a joyful desperation in search of release. Nothing feels better to a comedian than performing in front of a hot audience - I'm not talking about how they look, of course. Although I know the audience isn't there to see me, I still feel the love and appreciation they have for my super gay brand of stand-up. I've just opened for famed queer comedian and personal hero DeAnne Smith at Toronto's iconic Comedy Bar. "That's my set for you tonight, I'm Robert Watson, thank you very much!"Īs I walk offstage the applause from the crowd follows me into the greenroom.